1.ups and downs 甘与苦;浮沉;兴衰
例句：I wasn't aware of the ups and downs of my parents' lives.
我对我父母一生的浮沉并不了解。
2.look on the bright side of things 看人生的光明面
例句：Look on the bright side of things;your loss can be a blessing in disguise.
看人生的光明面嘛;塞翁失马焉知非福。
3.in one's eyes 在某人眼中
例句：In my eyes，Jim is an honest person.
在我眼中，吉姆是个诚实的人。
4.pay attention to 注意
例句：With limited time and attention, we have to be careful what we look for and what we pay attention to.
由于时间和注意力有限，我们必须对我们寻找的和关注的东西特别小心。